The Divorce Compass: Guidance through life’s biggest change
When you feel lost, you need a compass.
Right now, everything feels overwhelming and you feel lost and uncertain. Your thoughts are racing. One minute you're determined, the next you're falling apart. You're worried about your children, your finances, your future—and whether you're strong enough to get through this. You're not sure what to do next, and the idea of making the wrong decision keeps you up at night. One day you hate your ex and the next your sobbing and wondering if there is a way to fix things. You might feel alone, but you don’t have to do this alone. The Divorce Compass will give you the direction you need.
Does this sound like you?
Worrying about what your life is going to look like when this is over
Lying awake at night, replaying arguments and second-guessing every decision
Panicking at the thought of seeing a solicitor, not knowing what to say or ask
Not knowing what you should be doing next
Getting into arguments with your ex in the heat of emotion
Trying to deal with the emotional rollercoaster of grief and rage
Worried about not seeing your kids every day and managing co-parenting with someone who you barely recognise anymore
Feeling completely alone, even when surrounded by friends, because they don’t quite get it
Struggling to keep things normal for your children, while your own world feels upside down
Sound familiar?
Now, imagine this instead…
✔ You wake up each morning knowing exactly what the next step is
✔ You feel prepared and calm heading into solicitor meetings
✔ You’re spending wisely on solicitors because you already know what you want and need
✔ You respond to your ex with calm confidence—no more spiralling afterwards
✔ You’ve got someone in your corner who gets it, supporting you between sessions
✔ You’re co-parenting from a place of strength, not stress
✔ You’re moving forward, even when it’s hard—because you're no longer doing it all alone
This is what you will get if sign up to The Divorce Compass
🧭 What is The Divorce Compass?
The Divorce Compass is your personalised support system designed to guide you through every twist, turn and tough moment of separation or divorce. It’s not just advice—it’s a calm, structured, and emotionally grounded partnership to help you feel in control again.
Right now, everything might feel uncertain—emotionally, financially, and practically. The Divorce Compass gives you the clarity to make wise decisions, the support to stay steady, and the tools to handle difficult moments with confidence.
With the Divorce Compass, you’ll:
Know exactly what to prioritise and when
Feel emotionally supported and understood—by someone who gets it
Prepare for solicitor meetings so you can spend wisely on legal advice
Handle communication with your ex with strength and calm
Develop a co-parenting approach that puts your children first, even when your ex doesn’t
Rebuild your confidence, step by step, even if the future feels daunting right now
Regain your sense of direction and self-confidence, even when things feel uncertain
This is the clear, guided approach you’ve been looking for.
You’ll feel supported, informed and in control—every step of the way.
✅ What You’ll Gain:
✨ A roadmap through your separation and divorce with clear steps of what to do when so you feel fully prepared for solicitor meetings
✨ Strategies to deal with your ex when they are at their most infuriating! Plus how to support your kids when parenting styles are different.
✨ Ways to handle the stress, anxiety, grief and rage that you will experience
The Divorce Compass includes:
🗓 1:1 Coaching
Tailored to your exact needs—emotional, practical, and legal readiness.
📲 Ongoing Support Between Sessions
Via email or voice notes. For when you need instant reassurance or guidance.
📚 Personalised Strategy Plan
Using my STEP framework to get you clear on your direction, priorities, and choices.
🛠 Practical Divorce Tools
Scripts, checklists, solicitor prep guides, and financial planning templates.
🧠 Emotional Coaching
Support for loneliness, grief, anger, and overwhelm. Tools to manage difficult ex dynamics.
👩👧👦 Co-Parenting Strategy
Helping you create calm, child-focused transitions—even if your ex isn't playing fair.
Sound good? Book a strategy call to discuss further or to tailor the package to suit your bespoke needs.
💬 Clients say:
"I was overwhelmed, Googling everything and still felt completely lost. Working with Cath gave me real clarity—not just information. I stopped wasting time, felt calmer, and finally had a plan that made sense for me. I honestly don’t know how I’d have coped without her support."
🌟 You don’t need to fix everything overnight.
You just need the right support to take your next calm step forward.
📩 Ready to feel steady, supported and strong?
Click below to book your free strategy call—no pressure, no commitment. Just space to talk and decide if this is the support you need right now.
You don’t have to do this alone.
Let’s get you from stuck to strong!
Why Work With Me?
✔️ I’ve been through it myself – I understand the emotional rollercoaster of divorce, and I know what actually helps—not just in theory, but in real life.
✔️ Clarity without overwhelm – Divorce is complex, but I break it down into manageable steps, so you feel informed and in control, not lost in legal jargon or stress.
✔️ Save time, money & emotional energy – I help you navigate the emotional and practical side of divorce, so you don’t waste thousands using a solicitor as a therapist.
✔️ No judgement, just support – Whether you’re feeling angry, guilty, anxious, or numb, I’ll help you work through it with practical strategies and emotional resilience.
✔️ A future-focused approach – You don’t just need to “get through” your divorce—you need a plan for what comes next. I’ll help you rebuild with confidence and purpose.
Chris
“Cath helped me greatly during a life-changing transition and I was really looking forward to my appointment with her. She helped me clarify a lot in which direction I wanted to go. It also helped me to shed light on some relationships I have, to be clearer on where I stand and on the dynamics. I would definitely recommend her as a coach!”
Sara
“Cath was instrumental in getting me through my separation and first stages of divorce. Not only does she have a wealth of knowledge about divorce, she has great understanding of the emotional impact. She gave me several strategies to help me be more in control and rebuild my self-confidence. I would have struggled so much more without her.”
My Personalised STEP Programme:
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Strategy and Support
The STEP programme starts by getting to know your story, your needs, and your goals, so we can create a strategy that fits your unique situation.
Throughout the process, you’ll have my full support every step of the way—a compassionate ally dedicated to your well-being and success.
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Tools and Techniques
Learn practical techniques to manage stress, handle negotiations, and communicate effectively. These strategies will help you stay calm and in control, even when things feel uncertain.
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Empowerment
The heart of the Serene Strength package is all about empowerment—turning a challenging situation into a chance to grow, rediscover yourself, and build new strength for the future.
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Practical Steps
Go from feeling overwhelmed to feeling in control with clear, practical steps. Whether it’s sorting your finances, managing co-parenting, or focusing on your wellbeing, you’ll have a clear plan to move forward with confidence.